About me




For most of my life I’ve wondered who I am and why I am here.  As I was growing up, no one else seemed to be talking about these things, or even thinking about them, so I buried it deep inside and tried my best to fit in the way I was “supposed” to, all the while feeling like there was something desperately wrong with me and that I needed to fix it.

In my early thirties, the death of a young relative left me feeling hopeless and helpless, wondering what is the point of life if we’re all just going to die anyway?  This launched me on a search.  I didn’t even know what I was looking for, I just knew that there was a longing – a desperate longing for something that actually made sense about life.  I learned several alternative spiritual and healing techniques.  I meditated.  I read books and watched videos.  I eventually learned of non-duality teachings, and I read more books, watched more videos, and even sat with several ‘awakened’ teachers.  Yet I was still searching, something still felt missing. I was looking for the key that would unlock the mystery of me and of life.

In 2009 I met my friend and teacher, Scott Kiloby.  Since I started working with him and doing the Living Inquiries, the seeking for something outside of myself has stopped, and the question of ‘who am I’ is no longer relevant.  Once I started looking at my experience in this way, everything changed.  I no longer chase something ‘out there.’  I feel happy and fulfilled in my life and in my work.  I am no longer seeking some future state.  This is not to say that I don’t have problems, or ever experience pain.  Quite the contrary.  Yet, as I continue to do the inquiries on myself and with other facilitators, there is much less avoidance or resistance to what I’m experiencing.  And more and more, there is the recognition that everything that is happening, is not happening to a ‘me’.  In that is incredible freedom.

I’ve been a facilitator and trainer of Scott Kiloby’s Living Inquiries since Scott formally began to train them in early 2012.   My life is now dedicated to this work, to Scott and his teachings.  It’s the only way I know to give back for what he has given me – the end of seeking.

If you are still suffering, searching, longing… I encourage you to give the inquiries a try.

Much Love,



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